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LIVING BY DESIGN NEWSLETTER
by Leslie Karen Sann, MA, LCPC
V9, #18


September 3, 2009

IN THIS ISSUE

Naked Almonds

 

Be careful what you ask for, you may get it. 
   ~ John Roger ~

 

 

Naked Almonds

I don't know about you, but I love learning new things. I find that my life is more exciting and interesting when I open up to discovery.

Recently in the process of learning about eating a raw food diet, I was told by my raw foods coach that once my almonds are finished soaking to remove the skin. She told me that in auryuvedic medicine the meat of the almond is calming yet the skin is fiery therefore she recommended removing the skin.

I soaked 2 cups of almonds overnight and the next day I began the task of skinning these almonds. I looked at the bowl of almonds and got grumpy for there were a lot of them and I wasn't finding it an easy task to get the skin off.

When I'm grumpy whatever I'm doing seems harder and lasts longer. A thought appeared, a memory of a passage I had read in a book where the author, who is a raw food chef, said she doesn't do anything unless she loves doing it.

Hmmm, there must be things she does that are as unfun and tedious as peeling these almonds. If she only does what she loves how does she love these tedious and unfun tasks?

So I challenged myself by asking; "How can I love standing here and peeling these almonds?"

Have you ever noticed that whatever question you ask your brain, which is a computer of sorts, it will do a search and come up with an answer? If you ask, "Why am I such a jerk?", your brain will look into the files and then parade a bunch of evidence that supports jerk behavior.

Ask any question and your obedient brain will search for an answer.

When I asked how can I love doing this, my brain sent an idea. Why not think of someone you love with every almond you peel and send them loving thoughts while you are peeling the almonds.

So I did.

And I found the bowl filled with naked almonds, skin now removed, and my heart filled with an abundance of love. I also was full of gratitude for I realized in the process how blessed I am for there were so many people for me to remember and to send love that I could have peeled even MORE almonds.

Maybe you don't have a bowl of soaked almonds to peel, but perhaps there is something in your life you do that is really non- negotiable that you don't enjoy doing. If so, ask a wonder question: "How can I make this more fun or enjoyable?" Or if you are ready for the big move, "How can I love what I am doing?" You may be surprised at what shows up. Try it on. Check it out. And if you are willing, write to me and let me know what happens.

 

 

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