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LIVING BY DESIGN NEWSLETTER
by Leslie Karen Sann, MA, LCPC
V9, #17


August 20, 2009

IN THIS ISSUE

The EXPERIMENT

 

Learn something new. Try something different. Convince ourself that you have no limits. . 
   ~ Brian Tracy ~

 

 

The EXPERIMENT

As you've seen by my last few articles I have been playing with my food. It started with a 14 day cleanse and was followed by what I'm calling my experiment with raw.

I am amazed at how much fun I am having exploring the realm of raw food prep. Just last week I spent an afternoon getting coached (yes - I get coached too), on preparing raw foods. It was a ton of fun playing with food and creating things I had never eaten before.

I am noticing that describing what I am doing as, Playing with My Food, or the Raw Food Experiment, fosters a sense of fun and adventure, more than if I tell myself I'm on a raw foods diet. The word diet is not encouraging. It triggers eww - only raw - how boring.

Instead of feeling bored and restricted, when I call what I'm doing play and exploration I find I am enthused and eager to try new things.

Trying new things is fun. I actually had a chocolate pudding made from raw cacao powder, maple syrup and avocado that was for me, out of this world yum. I never would have imagined.

I've been having so much fun I thought I'd let you know how powerful words can be and encourage you to notice how you talk to yourself.

Start with an area in your life you are not currently enjoying. Notice how you describe the situation to yourself. Do your words excite you or pull you down? If the latter, challenge yourself to change the words and see what happens.

Recently a client of mine kept telling herself something she was learning was hard. Putting myself in her shoes, I couldn't imagine that description would encourage me to keep practicing until I became competent. It sounded like a set up to give up.

It's simple to turn "it's hard," to "I'm learning how to ___ ." Try it on. What do you notice? For me, it's a minor change with a BIG difference.

So if you are finding something in your life is 'hard,' notice what you are saying to you and challenge yourself to PLAY with your words and do something different. See if you can language the situation in a way that invites you to participate in a more open way.

 

 

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