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LIVING BY DESIGN NEWSLETTER
by Leslie Karen Sann, MA, LCPC
V8, #23
October 30, 2008

IN THIS ISSUE

"Excessive fear is always powerless." 
   ~ Aeschylus ~

"If you look into your own heart, and you find nothing wrong there, 
what is there to worry about? What is there to fear?" 
   ~ Confucius ~

 

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F E A R and THE MAN BEHIND THE CURTAIN 
   by Leslie Karen Sann

Life does what it does. What you do with what life does is the experience you get to live in. Sometimes what we do is Make Things Up. Sometimes what we make up frightens us, especially if you have been listening to the news lately. (A friend of mine says CNN stands for Constantly Negative News.)

How do we scare ourselves? Let's look at the word FEAR:

Fantasized 
Expectations 
Appearing 
Real

There is Fear, as in a saber tooth tiger is going to eat me if I don’t get my butt up this tree, and there is Fear, as in I’m imagining the sky is falling and I am freaking out that my life is falling apart. The first fear got us this far in our evolution. The second one drives us bananas.

Worry is how we run away from facing the fear. The Power Move is to turn instead and face our fear. Look at the Worst Possible Outcome and figure out What You Would DO if The Worst Occurred. You may surprise yourself with your resourcefulness and you may find that the Worst of All is just another bump in the road.

Remember the "Wizard of Oz"? The wizard seemed a lot scarier projected Bigger than Reality onto the screen in the great room. The truth was he was just an ordinary man.

I suggest you go ahead and look at the man behind the curtain. You will find the situation is much more manageable than your Fantasized Expectations Appearing Real are telling you.

What happens when you face your fears and let yourself feel your feelings is that you open up a connection with your creativity. Once that door opens you are able to assess the situation and get innovative about solving it.

So go ahead, do look at the man behind the curtain. Face what it is that is frightening you. You may surprise yourself and find you are much greater than you thought. You may discover you are the wizard that can make things happen and as such you can relax into your creativity and trust that all is well.

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Remember, the human spirit is resilient. We are inherently creative and capable to overcome adversity and challenge. Focus on your abilities to navigate whatever you are facing. Find a way to take actions on your own behalf and on the behalf of those you love.

 

 

 

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Living by Design. All rights reserved. 
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