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LIVING BY DESIGN NEWSLETTER
by Leslie Karen Sann, MA, LCPC
V6, #20
October 19, 2006

IN THIS ISSUE

SLOW AND STEADY WINS THE RACE

What race? Well not a race really . Movement towards your goal. Hiking alone up St. Mary's Peak outside the town of Stevensville, MT, distance from trailhead 4.5 miles, gain in elevation 2500', I kept hearing myself say, slow and steady wins the race.

I hike.  I rest.  

I hike.  I rest.

I keep envisioning myself emerging into the opening that indicated I had made it to the top. I imagine what it would feel like in my body when I stop on the top and looked out into Idaho. I see myself happy, expanded, pleased with my efforts.

I hike.  I rest.

There is a forest fire raging at a neighboring mountain. The smoke is pouring up into the air. I notice I am wondering how far sparks fly. Could a spark land all the way over here? What if it did and the mountain I am on caught fire? Would I know what to do?

I shift my focus because I am scaring myself. I imagine my destination. I remember what my friend told me about the view into Idaho. I keep walking.

Slowly, steadily I hike. One step at a time. Stopping to rest, to take in my surroundings, to listen.

I tell myself, "I am the tortoise." I remind myself that the tortoise won the race. I can do this. One step at a time.

There is beauty to take in. The view of the Bitterroot when I can see it. Dead trees which I love. Nature's sculptures. I run into a grouse and her babies.

I finally make it past the tree line. I have imagined I will be close to the ranger station. I find I am not! It is much further. I can hardly see it.

I am tired. I am disappointed. I notice I am having an inner conversation about turning back. I've made it this far and that's great. I don't have to prove anything. Beside, it's hazy, and the view into Idaho won't be that great.

I reread the description of the trail. The author of the book I am using describes the rest of the trip up as 'torturous, with intense switch backs.' I wonder where my brain was when I read the description back in the cottage?

I sit down. I rest. I wonder if I have it in me to keep going.

I consider what I will feel like tomorrow if I turn around now.

I get up. I begin to hike again.

I make it to the top.

Time to take in my accomplishment. Pause - take in the vista - look out into Idaho - look back into the Bitterroot Valley.

Ahhhh.

I did it!

Celebration time. Photos, water, lunch.

Rested and renewed I set my sites on a new goal.

The car!

 

QUOTES

"Slow and Steady wins the race." 
  ~ Aesop ~

PRACTICALLY SPEAKING

  • Where are you going? 
  • Have a clear vision of your outcome. 
  • Know what you really want.
  • Take action. 
  • One step at at a time. 
  • Doubt will creep in. Things happen to get you off track. 
  • Keep going. 
  • Celebrate your success. 
  • Set a new goal.

For more info on taking action to reach your goals visit our Living by Design article series.   

WONDER QUESTIONS:

Are you willing to take action on your dreams?

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