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LIVING BY DESIGN NEWSLETTER
by Leslie Karen Sann, MA, LCPC
V5, #24
December 20, 2005

IN THIS ISSUE

LIVING IN GRATITUDE

One of the keys to opening out hearts is gratitude. It is the spiritual antidote to the feelings of lack. Through gratitude we can begin to appreciate the abundance around us.

Gratitude has the power to shift our focus from there is not enough to there are blessings galore.

There is a phenomena of life - we attract what we dwell upon. If we focus on lack, that is what we get. To lose the feeling of lack, come back to this moment with a focus of gratitude.

Learn to focus on what is right now and appreciating the blessing of being alive. Look at your world through the eyes of fullness and gratitude and allow yourself to harvest the abundance all around you.

Teach yourself to appreciate what you have rather than what you don't. I'd rather have a small inconvenient bathroom than no bathroom at all. I'd rather have to run up and down the stairs to the washer and dryer than to have no washer and dryer at all.

You can even learn to appreciate your negativity. I can appreciate my irritation at a store that employs only one clerk to staff the register the week before Christmas. I can be grateful that I'm irritated because I'm hot in my very warm coat and boots. I can appreciate that I have a family I want to get home to, a warm home and food in the pantry. I can appreciate that I'm irritated because I have someone I care about for whom I am buying a gift...... Now I'm feeling grateful and not irritated, and standing in line is no longer an issue.

Focus on being grateful for your next breath and you will find that most of your problems disappear. Be grateful for whatever is around you right now. You will find you radiate a positive energy that is contagious, and you will be living in true abundance.

QUOTES

"To have abundance does not mean having lots of things: it means having access to, and communion with the essence of all things."
  ~ John-Roger ~

"There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
 
~ Albert Einstein ~

REQUEST

I am writing a book on forgiveness. If you' would like to contribute you can do one or both of two things:

  1. ask me any questions you might have about forgiveness, what is it, how to do it, why do it....
  2. send me any story you may have about how forgiveness, forgiving yourself or another has changed your life, even in small ways.

PRACTICALLY SPEAKING:

  • Next time you are upset, notice where you have been placing your attention.
  • Challenge yourself to shift to finding things to be grateful for.
  • Do this as long as it takes to open your heart to the abundance of the moment

WONDER QUESTIONS:

  • Are you willing to be grateful for EVERYTHING in your life - no matter what your mind thinks of the person, situation or circumstance?

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