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LIVING BY DESIGN NEWSLETTER
by Leslie Karen Sann, MA, LCPC
V5, #17
September 29, 2005

IN THIS ISSUE

CHANGE NEVER ENDS
Meeting the Challenge of Change, Part 12

There is no end to change. What is the end? We are always in a moment - in motion - that leads to another moment. We are not going to an end. Instead we are going for an experience that leads to another experience. The journey unfolds and it is never ending.

We forget that. We think that we can make it end. That one day we will get there. We'll be done.

But life isn't like that. Life is a dance, a movement, an unfolding.

Change by definition is uncomfortable. When we are in the process of change we give up the current position we occupy and move to the next one, which is unfamiliar, out of our comfort zone and therefore UNcomfortable.

Discomfort is a sign that we have outgrown where we were and are learning something new. It tells us we are changing and growing. And this is good. Enjoy your discomfort for it tells you something new is on the way.

Bless the lack of complete satisfaction for it keeps us moving forward and evolves us into greater beings. If we were satisfied and comfortable, we wouldn't do any work. If we reach the end = getting everything we want and need, there is no expansion or growth.

There is always something else we are going to go after - because our nature is to evolve and we desire to grow further and expand. Not because we are miserable - but because we yearn for movement. A sense of incompleteness is good. It keeps us moving forward.

Bless your issues, for they are the irritation, the discomfort, that fuels growth.

Notice what in your life is uncomfortable. Now ask yourself how can I welcome that which is changing with an open heart?

QUOTES:

"Sitting quietly, doing nothing, Spring comes and the grass grows by itself." 
  ~ Taoist poem ~

You have the ability to raise yourself. Don't contract from your experiences. Bless them. Love them. They are your ladders into expansion and higher consciousness.
  ~ John-Roger with Paul Kaye ~

Ah, but a man's reach should exceed his grasp, Or what's a heaven for? 
  ~ Robert Browning ~

PRACTICALLY SPEAKING:

  • Scan your life - noticing what may be currently disturbing to you.
  • Ask yourself might this irritation be a sign that there is something changing in your life - either inside of you or in your outer environment.
  • Wonder how you might have invited that change into your life - what was restless in you for more - for expansion - for growth?
  • Can you embrace the disturbance and bless it as a gift of your own design?

WONDER QUESTIONS:

  • How are you the promoter of your own discomfort?
  • What aspect of you wishes to reach beyond what you have in the moment so you must expand into more?
  • Are you willing to claim the creative impulse to grow, learn, and expand?

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