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LIVING BY DESIGN NEWSLETTER
by Leslie Karen Sann, MA, LCPC
V10, #2
January 21, 2010

 

IN THIS ISSUE

Celebrate What's Right with the World

 

“As I celebrated what was right with the world, I began to build a vision of possibility, not scarcity. Possibility... always another right answer.” 
  ~ Dewitt Jones ~

 

 

Celebrate What's Right with the World  by Leslie Karen Sann

I recently ran across a video piece put together by Dewitt Jones, a photographer for National Geographic. In it he shares a vision he has embraced through his work with the magazine: Celebrate what's right with the world, rather than wallow in what's wrong. View it here.

In the video there's a scene where he talks about his humanness and how he wasn't in the mood to take a shot of a field of dandelions he had been planning. By the time he went back the field of dandelions that had been spectacular, rich green grass filled with bright yellow flowers, had changed. Now it was a field of puff balls and in comparison looked dull. Yet, instead of packing up and going home, he asked himself,

WHAT CAN BE CELEBRATED HERE IN THIS MOMENT? WHERE ARE THE POSSIBILITIES?

He let that question roll around inside of him as he was playing with his camera, shooting from every different angle, distance and direction. And a moment came when the sun shone in such a way that it backlit a puff ball and he captured that moment on film. And the photo is well-- magnificent! More beautiful than the original one he went to shoot. If he had gone home, given up, let himself get discouraged . . .

How is life like that for us non-photographers? How often do we look at what we have and decide it's not what we want and WALK AWAY instead of asking WHAT CAN BE CELEBRATED HERE AND NOW JUST AS THIS IS?

Christmas Eve morning a friend had emailed me a quote by Gangaji, "Choose Silence and Love is apparent". I printed it out and posted it over our fireplace.

That evening my husband and I were sitting by the fire. He was in a quiet contemplative place enjoying the stillness of the evening. I noticed my mind was going and I wanted to talk, but he was still and silent. What I wanted and what was in the moment did not match. I read the quote. I chose the Silence. I listened for Love. And It appeared. And the experience was more beautiful than what I had in mind when I came into the room to join my husband on the couch. Way, way, way more beautiful. Something truly to be celebrated, to rejoice.

How often do we argue with the way things are, and what results do we produce? When I argue with reality I can make myself very unhappy, miserable in fact. I walk away in that moment from what is already present that can be celebrated. If only I was willing to look for it.

It is said happiness is an inside job and I have found this to be true. It takes great courage and inner strength to choose to be happy, to celebrate what is, even when the outer circumstances are not showing up the way we had planned.

Asking the question, "What can be celebrated here and now?", is a doorway to discover joy and wonder in every moment.

 

 

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